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Frequently Asked Questions

We are planning on attending for the first time, what should we expect?

Once you are registered; one of our crew members will take you on a tour of the facility. They will explain some simple rules and answer any questions you may have. The events are BYOB, we provide mixers and a light buffet. You are welcome to bring a cooler with you to the event. If you have never attended a lifestyle event, you may have a very different idea than what actually takes place. We strive to have interactive, fun themed events, which provide the atmosphere for everyone to get involved on whatever level they are comfortable with. We will have vendors, classes, workshops, discussion panels and presentations. This is a really exciting event! In the evening, we have a ballroom with a dance floor and dj, a light buffet, banquet seating and an after party.  If at any time you need assistance or have questions, feel free to ask any of our crew/staff and they will be more than happy to help you. We want you to be completely at ease, have fun and enjoy the activities at Kinky Swing Fest. Kinky Swing Fest offers the full party atmosphere with a convention twist: dance, mingle with other couples, socialize, attend workshops, listen to some of our fantastic speakers, and explore.

What sort of people attend your events?

Our members tend to be upscale, mature, fun loving, open-minded and curious. Our members are our best assets and we want members who are fun-loving and respectful of others. Membership is non-discriminating as to color, creed, social class, education or income. Ages range from 21-65, the average member being 38-40.


Is participation required?

No, of course not. Many people come to just watch all the fun. No one is pressured to do anything except have fun. All of the music, entertainment, and comfortable surroundings are for one purpose. To allow people to have a lot of fun with absolutely "No Pressure". If you want to join in some of the activities, great! Enjoy Kinky Swing Fest on your own terms and always be respectful.


What is the dress code?

Most men wear dress slacks, dress or pressed sports shirt. Jeans are allowed, but men remember, dress to impress. Ladies come dressed in sexy, sensuous outfits, remember this is the perfect situation where less is more! Dress to the theme of the event, once you are inside the club, thongs and pasties are all that is required.


What if we meet an acquaintance?

It may happen and if it does trust your instincts, Kinky Swing Fest is big enough for everyone. To attend you must respect all other members, and discretion is required. Remember everyone is there for the same reason - to have fun!


What is some of the lingo?

Here are a few common terms that people use when talking about the Lifestyle.

Someone who is not in the Lifestyle.

A single bisexual female in the lifestyle who enjoys the company of couples.

Soft swap
A couple who likes to play, but draws the line somewhere short of intercourse.
This covers a very broad spectrum, as a “soft swap” couple might limit themselves to just touching, or they might be okay with and enjoy oral sex, just not vaginal sex.
Communication is critical so everyone understands the limits.

Full swap
More than soft swap.

Same Room
Couples who only play in the presence of their significant other, with everyone having sex in the same room.
This is the majority, but certainly not all, of the couples in the lifestyle.

To engage in sexual activity is to “play”.
If someone asks if you want to play, they don’t mean cards.

Meet & Greet
A gathering of swingers at an off-premise location, where you can meet others in the lifestyle.

Simply says whether sexual activity is permitted during the party.
On–premise clubs have areas where people can play, off-premise clubs don’t.
Some have 'after parties' where play is permitted after a certain time.